Jennifer Hudson Deals with Grief

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She Attends Michael Jackson's Memorial

When dealing with loss, we sometimes wonder how soon is too soon. With Jennifer Hudson performing at Michael Jackson's memorial today, we couldn't help but think that this will be a painful experience for her after losing her mother, brother, and nephew late last year. How did Jennifer Hudson channel her grief into personal and professional growth over the past year?

*The Time: Jennifer Hudson stepped out of the spotlight after her personal life hit the tabloids last year. Not rushing into obligations after a major change can be a step in the right direction. Jennifer Hudson made her first public appearance two months after the tragic events transpired, singing at the Super Bowl XLIII.

*The Interviews: As a rule, Jennifer Hudson does not speak about her family tragedy. Not only is this important for emotional health, but it keeps unnecessary reminders of past pain from popping up in the form of quotes and "didn't I read...?"

*The Support: Having someone to count on makes a difference, and Jennifer Hudson's partner David Otunga made sure that the public knew he was in it for the long run. "I try to make sure she knows that in this time when things seem so uncertain for her there is certainty in our bond. She doesn't have to worry about losing me. I'm always going to be right here," he told Essence in the spring.

Do you think attending Michael Jackson's memorial will be trying for Ms Hudson?